We all have them. Realistic or unrealistic as they may be. What I've learned is that we set ourselves up for the fall when it comes to setting expectations. Whether it be for ourselves or others. I have very high expectations of myself and because of that I think I am my own worst enemy. I project how others feel about me and I am off target most of the time. Why? Because I think they have expectations of me that match my own for me and they don't. No one is as worried about me as I am! It's really that simple.
So, while I don't believe in New Year's resolutions, I am going to start today by trying to be more cognizant of how hard I am on me and stop the stinkin' thinkin' that everyone else is, too. It really is NOT all about me for them! LOL!
Happy New Year!